Abuse, whether it be physical violence, sexual abuse or mental and emotional abuse, is wrong. If you are being abused, you need to tell a trusted adult now to stop it happening again. Many young people often find it hard to speak out because they are worried about the consequences or that someone will get into trouble. But you should realise that it’s important that you look after yourself and make sure that you live in an environment where you are happy, confident and safe – not scared, sad and at risk.
If you have grown up being abused you can often feel powerless, betrayed and worthless and it can make you mistrustful of other people.
What happens when someone speaks out about being abused?
Adults must pass on the information to social services or the police when somebody is at risk of harm.
If a young person or child contacts an organisation such as Childline, all information is kept confidential unless the young person or child wants to take the next step or is in serious danger.
Remember, you have a right to be safe and you do not have to deal with abuse on your own.
Domestic violence
Domestic violence is aggression at home which results in one adult attacking another. Although you may not be involved in the arguments or violence, it can still affect you if you can hear or see what is happening. You may feel scared, hurt and alone.
- Always make sure you stay safe by staying in your bedroom.
- If your mum is being abused, try and get her to seek help.
- Talk to a teacher or other family member if you feel like you’re alone.
- Call the police on 999. Talk to them and tell them how you feel and what you have seen.
- Call Childline if you need help or advice 0800 1111.
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