If your child comes to you to say they are pregnant or that their girlfriend is pregnant, your first reactions may be shock and anger. But the most important thing to do is stay calm and talk to your child and let them know that you will support them whatever they decide to do.

 

Although you can talk about options, your child is the person who has to make the decision which is right for them.

 

Your child needs to see her GP or young people’s service. They will confirm the pregnancy and tell her about services in the area for pregnant teenagers. Offer to go with her and support her if that’s what she wants.

 

Hospitals and health visitors often have services for teenage mothers beyond the routine antenatal care that will be offered. Some services, such as Brook, also have counsellors who will be able to explore how she feels about her pregnancy and give impartial information on her options.

 

Local authorities have a duty to provide suitable education for all children of compulsory school age, including those who become parents. If the pupil cannot attend school during their pregnancy, the school should provide work for the child to do at home.