Tackle bullying
Parents are amongst the first to notice symptoms of bullying. You may notice that your child is complaining of headaches, stomach aches or is anxious and irritable. Ask them about progress and school friends and how they spend their lunch hour. If you think your child is acting out of character at home contact the school.
What should I do?
By law, your child’s school should have an anti-bullying policy which explains how it deals with incidents of bullying. You have a right to know about this policy.
Initially, expressing your concerns to the head teacher should resolve any issues. If you feel that hasn’t helped you can contact the Chair of Governors and then the local authority. If your child goes to a voluntary aided school you could contact the archdiocese for Roman Catholic schools and the Diocese for Church of England schools. You could also ring the helpline at Parentline Plus on 0808 800 2222 for general information.
I think my child is a bully. What should I do?
It is important that you don’t become angry. You want to try and solve the issue.
- Let them know that making other children unhappy is unacceptable.
- Discourage other family members from using aggressive behaviour or bully tactics to get what they want.
- Arrange to see your child’s teacher to explain any problems and ask for help.
- Praise your child when they are kind to others.